Your Child Is Becoming… What You Are Modeling at Home

May 25, 2026    Sean Pinder Jr

Have you ever wondered what the real difference is between a child who grows up to walk with God and one who walks away? I want you to stop right now and receive this truth — because the answer is not found in a program, a school, or a church curriculum. It is found in what is being modeled inside the home.


Hannah raised Samuel with prayer, intentionality, and a life surrendered to God. Before Samuel was even born, she was on her knees. And when he came — everything she poured into him carried him into one of the most significant callings in Israel's history.


"For this child I prayed, and the Lord has granted me my petition which I asked of Him. Therefore I also have lent him to the Lord; as long as he lives he shall be lent to the Lord." — 1 Samuel 1:27-28 (NKJV)


Let these words resonate within your heart today. Hannah did not raise Samuel for herself. She raised him for God. From the very beginning, his life had a divine trajectory — and she built that trajectory through what she modeled before him. Take comfort in this — you do not have to be a perfect parent. You have to be a praying, pursuing, surrendered one.


Now look at Eli. A priest. A man with full access to the house of God. And yet —


"Now the sons of Eli were corrupt; they did not know the Lord." — 1 Samuel 2:12 (NKJV)


Understand this — they did not know the Lord. Not because the Lord was unavailable. They lived in the temple. They were unavailable to the Lord because Eli honored his sons above God and refused to correct them. What Eli tolerated at home, God judged in public. What Hannah cultivated at home, God rewarded in public.


Your child is not just watching what you say about God. They are watching what you do when no one else is looking. They are absorbing your prayer life, your worship, your integrity, and your reverence. They are becoming what you are modeling — right now, in your home, every single day.


May this powerful teaching from 1 Samuel fill your heart with holy intentionality and remind you that the greatest pulpit you will ever stand in is the one inside your own home. Thank you for joining me today. Subscribe for daily teachings, morning prayer broadcasts, and live services.